How to Process What You Dislike About Someone

The quality you dislike in someone is a quality in yourself you need to embrace more! What!? Yup, you need to become more like them—(obviously not literally, especially if they’re mean, abusive, racist, etc.)–but in a conscious, positive way. For example, being irritated at someone’s selfishness means you need to be more “selfish” by following your own needs—not in an insensitive way like the other person may being doing it, but in an aware, constructive way. Or, say you dislike someone who uses their power to oppress and hurt people. Their behavior is awful but the question is, how can you use your own power in a positive way? This episode shows you how to process what bothers you about people (including the really bad stuff) and use it for your personal growth.