Envy is a painful process that isn’t easily solved. You can suppress it and focus on a higher power, rationalize it, judge and ban it from your mind, give it negative labels, etc, but all you’re doing is transferring it to your subconscious. Then it stews and figures out how to give you other problems to compensate for being suppressed.
Being envious of someone is the process of projecting your own unrecognized, unlived inner awesomeness onto them, and then feeling bad that they possess these great qualities instead of you. It’s such an unconscious process that you have no idea that what you’re jealous of is actually something within yourself you haven’t yet become conscious of.
Envy contains an important message for your life. It’s your guide, your teacher helping you see the positive parts of yourself you don’t identify with. It’s the spark that can light the fire of your personal growth and transformation.